One year later...life continues but not without trials and struggles and heartbreak and joy and happiness and new things... Surviving the sudden death of your spouse is traumatic even to the most stable people...no matter what they think. I can say this as I somehow survived the first year post losing my spouse of almost 36 years. I would like to share what I learned and what I do everyday and hope that it helps someone someday to get along a little better.
Wednesday, November 9, 2016
Perhaps I will start a non-profit that helps to make a difference. There are so many worthwhile causes out there...for me it's about helping individuals and families...not administrations. Worthwhile causes get down and dirty with the people they are helping. I'm about natural healthcare as the first option, medical healthcare only after that if natural fails. I am against drugs that make people commit suicide or do crazy things. I'm about education that truly educates. The current system is failing our youth. I'm about giving people equal rights - protecting human rights for all. I'm about making businesses succeed and an economy that flourishes and prospers. I want to help able people become more able so that this happens. I'm about making the world a better place one person at a time. I love to help!
Election is over
As I begin to plan for 2017, decisions have to be made on what events I will continue to produce and which ones I must leave behind. My purpose is to make a difference in the lives of those in my community, family, and life. Without community support it becomes difficult to fund and continue...so my quest is to find people with common goals that can help.
Building all my dreams into one lifetime sometimes seems monumental and pie in the sky...but if I don't try I can never succeed. So I will start with the brand new day that I have before me and see where it will take me. I'm excited to go my global entry meeting and get that done! Travel will be easier and since my outreach tends to extend past the borders, I will look forward to making it as easy as possible. Tomorrow I am lucky enough to have the opportunity to take a painting class! It's been a little while since I allowed myself the creative time that I long for everyday!
Go forth today and make a difference! If you don't know how, ask...Smile and carry on! Love your family and your friends - practice your faith and believe in yourself. See the world is already a better place because of you! Have the best day ever!
Tuesday, November 8, 2016
Another Brand New Day!
Have a great Election Day and remember to respect the system. If we don't like the system, then we need to work together to come up with a better one - but for now we should respect it.
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
Growth
Personal growth is always the most exciting and fulfilling feeling. Sometimes you can't predict the source from which it will come. It always comes from within when new data is learned or old outdated data is disposed of. The past can hold you down when it comes to personal growth for sure. Be open to learning new things and having new experiences. Despite whatever life hands you...you can blossom where you land. Be open...grow and expand. Life awaits you...
Monday, October 3, 2016
Long trip away
We are heading south for somewhere between 2 and 6 weeks for me to take another step or two on my personal spiritual adventure. It feels like a great time to look at the future and imagine what I would like to create and how I would like to do so. I'm looking forward to gaining abilities that will propel me into the future.
It's interesting to plan to leave for a month or two. While I have been away that long, it generally was a short trip extended rather than a planned excursion. I'm really excited and scared at the same time. It will be exciting and fun no doubt...but anything that causes personal growth and change is a little scary too.
I will keep you posted as time goes by and share some of the gains with you too. Have a great fall and enjoy the cooler weather.
Thursday, September 29, 2016
Things are looking brighter!
My future looks bright and I'm looking forward to the spiritual journey I'm preparing to embark upon next week. As I strive to be the best being I can be, I am preparing for a few weeks of personal enhancement and figuring out how I can be the best person possible. I also hope that I can identify and embrace some new purposes and paths to follow as the future unfolds. I will keep you posted on my journey and hope that you will also embrace your own journey too!
Have a great weekend coming up. Take time for you and share some of you with those you love.
Sunday, September 25, 2016
Families
They dynamics between family members particularly in times of loss are always an interesting study. As we are visiting with family the past seems to be the elephant in the room that no one really talks about.
What are we afraid to say? How much pain we feel...how many regrets we have? Are we angry to be the one still here?
I have always subscribed to more communication not less is the road out. It's hard to get people to talk but so healing when you can do so. Today would have been Verle's 59th birthday. It's sad that he never saw this day. But life continues and so does he somewhere...somehow. His spirit lives on eternally. His contributions are well remembered. And our lives continue to a new chapter.
Here's to families and healing times.